About

What is B.A.C.K.?

Founded in 2020, B.A.C.K. is a kinky community serving the Bozeman, MT and Belgrade, MT areas with kink education, discussions, and a safe venue for kink oriented events. We welcome all open-minded adults (who are aged 18 and over and are out of high school), and support the right of all adults to engage in risk aware and consensual activities - we believe that sensuality and sexuality are a fundamental aspect of the human experience, so everyone should have the right to safely and consensually express their kink within the boundaries of the law without judgment. We support all people regardless of gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, race, preference, disability, or age.

What happens at our events?

Coffees

Curious about B.A.C.K., kink, or just want to meet kinky people? Coffees are purely-social events centered around discussion topics suggested by members of the community - generally, we will take a topic of discussion and discuss how it pertains to the kink world or community, sharing viewpoints and opinions. This is a great time to find out what ideas or thoughts everyone has in regards to kink or fetishes - our topics have ranged from competitive kink to homemade fetish gear to negotiation, and everything between! No attendees are obligated to participate in the discussion, but we ask you be respectful to those speaking.

Our coffees are wrapped up with a less structured period of “social talk”, a great time to catch up with your fellow kinksters, meet new ones, and otherwise socialize with individuals of like mind!

We require that we have a chance to meet you before you come to a party, and a coffee is a great way to achieve that!

Coffees are usually hosted on Mondays; check our upcoming public events or contact us for information about the next one!

Coffees are purely social events, not orgies, swinger events, sex events, or otherwise non-socially-oriented.

Parties

Parties, generally hosted once a month, are the play event for our group. Parties usually begin at 7 PM with introductions, followed by party time. We have numerous play spaces ranging from hard points to spanking benches to massage tables - scenes can range from mild to wild, silly to serious, and you never know what you may see!

We fully believe that consent and negotiation are important and necessary for scenes to be enjoyable and safe for all participants. Play is not guaranteed; all scenes are negotiated between attendees, not arranged by the venue, and all play is between freely-consenting adults - we do not allow money to be exchanged for play at our events. We are a sex positive group, and while sex may not be the primary focus of our events, we are aware that and and support that sex can be part of a scene. However, our parties are not orgies (but if you want to negotiate one with your fellow attendees, feel free!) By participating in play, you are assuming full responsibility for your interactions. Rules and expectations of attendees are given at the beginning of every party.

Parties are not public events - all attendees must be individually approved and vetted, and all must meet our requirements for eligibility.

(Due to unforeseen circumstances, our parties are on hold temporarily.)

We look forward to hearing from you and hope to see you at one of our events! If you have questions, please contact us or check our codes of conduct!

Thank you and have a great kinky time!